My Story

Although this blog has been documenting my PBM and reconstruction as I went through it, I have realized there is a need for all of the basic details to be posted on one page. It makes everything so much easier to understand, especially if you are new to this blog.

If you are looking for information about PBM, mastectomy, or reconstruction, I suggest that you take a look at the “Thinking About PBM?” page, and I would highly recommend the blogs listed on my blogroll.

Everyone’s story is different, and the more you know the better prepared you will be as you face the next few months. I also have another website, called Sisters In Scars, that is specifically about breast reconstruction and has information and personal stories about each type of reconstruction.

So after all of that advice, I will finally share with you the major points of my PBM and reconstruction so far.

2009

In 2009 I found a large lump in my breast. After a mammogram, ultrasound, and MRI it was determined I had over 20 masses and Fibrocystic Breast Disease. I was told I needed MRIs every 6 months for the rest of my life and with my family history I was facing a 40% chance of developing breast cancer.

I decided to have PBM (prophylactic bilateral mastectomy) for a few reasons. I have a 40% chance of winning a million dollars? Sure! Sign me up. Those are pretty good odds! A 40% chance of getting breast cancer? Ummm….no thank you.

(related blog posts: Journey of Recovery and AdventureFinding Courage to Change My LifeJust Around the Corner)

January 2010

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Me with a sample implant

In January 2010 I had my PBM and immediate reconstruction with exapanders and implants.

There are many different kinds of reconstruction. Mine involved cutting the Pectoralis Major muscle and stretching it to insert a hard ‘expander’. I also had Alloderm stitched to my Pectoralis and Serratus muscles to create a pocket for the expanders and eventually implants to settle into.

Expanders, and eventually implants, are put under the muscle because either one placed directly under skin after virtually all breast tissue has been removed during mastectomy would eventually wear through the skin.

Reconstruction is very different from augmentation. The muscle has to be slowly stretched to allow space for the final implant and to soften to create the look of a curve of a breast. Expanders get filled with saline at intervals (depending on the doctor’s methods and the patient’s pain levels) and then will be allowed to settle for a few months, creating a relaxed muscle and nicer curve.

The expander process is probably the most uncomfortable period (aside from complications that may arise), and many women have trouble sleeping, have the feeling of a tight rubber band around their chest, and various other problems that come with expanders.

They also do a whopper of a job on your self-esteem. The hard expanders, scars, constant doctors’ visits, strange noises from your chest all combine to make you feel a little like Frankenstein.

During my mastectomy I had expanders placed with 125 cc in each side. Due to complications I was in the hospital for 5 days. I finally went home and was surprised to find I couldn’t lift my arms, brush my hair, get dressed or go to the restroom by myself.

Less than 24 hours after getting home I developed a blood clot in my leg and was admitted into the local CCU. I finally went home for good and with a wonderfully supportive family and husband that took wonderful care of me as I slowly began to heal.

Video, 3 weeks post mastectomy:

 

 February 2010-September 2010

Over the next several months I had my expanders gradually filled and stopped at about 425cc in each side. I lost my insurance during this process and had to wait an extra few months before I could have my ‘implant swap’ that replaces the hard Dacron expanders with soft silicone implants.

(related blog posts: The Story of CourageThree Weeks Post OpLast Expander FillThree Months Post OpWhat I didn’t Know About My SurgeryNotes From A Stressed Out MindA Day of ReleaseChicken Feathers)

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

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Expanders at full volume, 425cc

 

 

October 2010

In October 2010 I had my implant swap. I was so happy to finally be soft and not uncomfortable again. I was very happy with my results immediately. My friends had all told me that the implant swap surgery would be so easy, and that I would feel so much better once they were removed. After being uncomfortable for 10 months I didn’t believe them, but they were right! I felt like a new person again and the surgery was a breeze!

(related blog posts: From A Foggy MindOde to BoobiesHardest Post I’ve Ever WrittenTime To Remove BandagesFace to Face With My New Body)

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2 days post implant swap

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3 days post implant swap

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Implants 5 Days Post Op

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Implants 5 Days Post Op

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Implants 5 Days Post Op

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Implants 5 Days Post Op

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Implants 5 Days Post Op

 

November 2010

Within a few weeks I noticed a problem. My left implant was “bottoming out”. The incision that attached the Alloderm to my chest had torn and my implant was sliding out of the pocket.

The swelling from the surgery had diminished and I wasn’t happy with the size of my implants. They seemed far apart and small for my body. I spoke with my plastic surgeon and he felt comfortable with the size and wanted to do fat transplants to close the gap between my breasts, as well as to improve the overall look of the reconstruction. He didn’t feel that the repair of the torn Alloderm would be a very big deal. There were several things about the upcoming surgery that made me uncomfortable, so I began to speak with other plastic surgeons.

(related blog posts: Houston, We Have A ProblemMy Boobie Fell OffMy Second Second OpinionDr # 4Wise WordsUnexpected HeroThe Reason I Avoid Mirrors)

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Nov 18, 2010-Left implant dropping

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Nov 18, 2010 square shape to breasts

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Dec 17. 2010-Further dropping of implant

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Dec 17, 2010-Implant can be moved by hand.

 

December 2010

December 2010 I had the surgery to repair my reconstruction. My new plastic surgeon replaced my silicone implants with cohesive gel implants of a larger size.

The Alloderm and my serratus muscle were both stitched to my ribs because the damage from the tear wouldn’t allow them to be stitched back together. A small section of muscle was detached from my breast bone to relieve some of the pulling that may have contributed to the tear. I woke up in amazing pain, much worse than any of the other surgeries.

Recovery was fast and I returned to work quickly, although I could not lift anything over 20 pounds for 6 months and could not do anything that would make me ‘bounce’ for that long either. If I were in a situation that would ‘bounce’, I needed to wear 2 exercise bras. I also had to wear an underwire bra 24 hours a day for 6 months. I could not have nipple reconstruction for at least a year, to make sure that the repair would hold.

(related blog posts: Who Kicked MeBack to the Land of the LivingTwo and a Half Weeks After RepairGetting Back to NormalNipples: To Be or Not To Be)

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Dec 29, 2010 Alloderm repaired, 550 cc implants

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Jan 2, 2011

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Jan 16, 2011

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Jan 16, 2011

 

June 2011

About halfway through 2011 I realized that I was developing Synmastia, or Symmastia, a condition that is caused when the muscle connected to the sternum pulls away and allows for the implants to migrate to the center and actually touch.

I was very disappointed by this development because although it was rare, I had heard that it was painful to repair and that repairing it would mean even longer recovery without physical activity. I tried to be as careful as I could and hoped it was just in my mind, but as the year went on I finally checked back in with my plastic surgeon and he confirmed my fears.

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Nov 26, 2011, synmastia

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Nov 26, 2011 Rippling and Dog Ears

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Nov 26, 2011, synmastia

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Nov 26, 2011, synmastia

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Nov 26, 2011, synmastia

 

December 2011

I had surgery to repair the synmastia in December of 2011. I had to wear a thong bra for 6 months, 24 hours a day. The thong bra kept constant pressure against the sternum in hopes that the scar tissue would adhere the muscle back to where it should be. I will be honest, when I woke up from surgery I was surprised that I didn’t feel more pain. 

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Jan 15, 2012-Thong bra, worn 24/7 for 6 months

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Jan 15, 2012-Thong bra

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Mar 5, 2012

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 August 2012

I had slept on the couch for most of 2012 trying to remain upright to keep from accidentally pushing the implants together while sleeping on my side. I only had 2 months of regular activity that year.

I was very careful through my follow up appointment in August of 2012 when I was given permission to remove the Thong Bra and to continue with normal life. My physical restrictions of 25 pounds were lifted and I could resume all physical activities that I was comfortable doing.

(related blog posts: Attack of the Uniboob-What is Symmastia? , Scheduling ConsultationsPost Reconstruction Specialty Bra)

October 2012

By October of 2012 I realized that my repair surgery was not successful and the synmastia had returned, despite my limited physical activity. When I returned to my plastic surgeon to address the return of the synmastia, he informed me that he was not interested in performing another surgery at that time. He told me that ‘they look better than they did last time’ and ‘don’t do anything for a few months, don’t lift anything, then come back in a few months and we will see.’

At this point I was very upset and my husband immediately suggested I find another surgeon. I had been in pain for almost a year and a half from synmastia, and had already spent most of 2010 through 2012 under physical restrictions. It was time to do something different.

I started doing research, trying to find a surgeon that could help me. I found The Center for Restorative Breast Surgery in New Orleans and sent them my information and photos. They agreed to take me as a patient, and in March of 2013 I traveled with my husband to New Orleans. 

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Dec 30, 2012

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Dec 30, 2012

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Dec 30, 2012

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Jan 18, 2013 Dr said “They look better than they did before.” Really?

March 2013

The surgeons there removed my implants, removed the Alloderm, re-attached my muscles as they were naturally, and performed a DIEP Flap reconstruction.

During this procedure fat and skin and blood supply are moved to the chest, which was helpful to my condition because now the weight of breasts are back on top of the muscle, just like they are in a normal woman.

(related blog posts: I’m Sorry For The SilenceVideo Update 2013Kindness From FriendsThree Weeks Until SurgeryFirst of Many UpdatesWhat? Surgery AGAIN??At Last…Surgery DayVideo Update about Implant Swap to DIEP Flap)

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Mar 13, 2013 Mark up for DIEP surgery

Mar 15, 2013-2 days post op DIEP flap, first time out of bed.

Mar 15, 2013-2 days post op DIEP flap, first time out of bed.

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April 29, 2013

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November 14. 2013

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Nov 14, 2013 Dog ear on hip to be repaired in 2nd stage DIEP surgery

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Nov 14, 2013, Scar necrosis to be repaired 2nd stage DIEP surgery

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Nov 14, 2013, Left breast with fill needed during 2nd stage DIEP surgery

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Nov 14, 2013, Right breast scar needs revision during 2nd stage DIEP surgery

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Nov 14, 2013 Both breasts prior to 2nd stage DIEP surgery.

 

November 2013

I returned to New Orleans in November, and on November 21, 2013 I had my second stage of my DIEP procedure which included nipple reconstruction, fat transfer to improve the shape of my breasts, and moving my belly button because it was off center.

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Nov 20, 2013 Mark up before 2nd stage DIEP

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Nov 20, 2013 Mark up before 2nd stage DIEP

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Nov 20, 2013 Belly button is off center and will be moved

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Nov 22, 2013 Post op second stage DIEP and nipple reconstruction

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Nov 22, 2013 Post op second stage DIEP and nipple reconstruction

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Nov 22, 2013 Looking pretty beat up, Post op second stage DIEP and nipple reconstruction

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Nov 22, 2013 Looking pretty beat up, Post op second stage DIEP and nipple reconstruction

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Nov 22, 2013 Looking pretty beat up, Post op second stage DIEP and nipple reconstruction

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Nov 23, 2013

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Dec 6, 2013

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Dec 18, 2013 Protectors for nipple reconstruction

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Dec 18, 2013 Post lipo for fat transfer

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Dec 18, 2013 nipple reconstruction

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Dec 18, 2013 nipple reconstruction

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Dec 29, 2013

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